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WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO GET MARRIED???

Tuesday, April 28th, 2009

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By Kojo

WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO GET MARRIED???

When is the right time to get married? I keep asking myself this question. Personally, I have always wanted to get married, settle down and start my own family one day. When I was younger, I thought I’d be married around the age I am now, but now I’m here the idea of getting married seems much more appealing later in life – I’m talking more along the lines of 50 years old!

I recently went to a wedding and heard the bride and groom deliver vows to one another and I sat there saying to myself, ‘at what age would I say those words and actually mean them? 50 Years old mate!!’

Now I’m not saying I can’t be in a loving relationship or start a family before I get to 50, but I think it’s important not to tell your wife what she wants to hear, but rather what you promise to uphold.

Women are more emotional than men and see the need to have a boyfriend from the age of 13. Men on the other hand tend to think more about sex rather then the thought of having a girlfriend – I don’t believe this changes when we get older.

I plan to be an amazing father and boyfriend one day. But right now, the thought of having no room to leave if the relationship is not working or having to give half my money away because I signed a document is not something I agree with.

I actually believe in the phrase, ‘Till death do us part.’ And it seems like the most appropriate time to utter these words is at the age of 50 when I’m on my way out. I can’t say those words at my current age and believe it!

Far too many people are getting divorced for silly reasons these days, which makes me think that the thought of being married merely looked good rather than felt good.

The Internet hasn’t made being faithful any easier for men and women either. We really have to take a good look at ourselves, be honest and say when we are ready to give our solo lives over to our partners. This doesn’t mean we can’t do things on our own, but being married means to share decisions as it will affect more than one person.

Let me know your thoughts and thanks for your time!

Kojo

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